
Psychology says people who reach their 60s without many close friends aren’t antisocial or cold — they were often the ones who spent decades absorbing everyone else’s emotional weight until there was little left for their own connections
In most families one person quietly carries everyone else’s feelings. Over the years, that emotional labor can leave little room for a parent’s own friendships and creative life. Here is a gentler way to think about it, and a few small ways to keep some room.










