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Why I Don’t Buy Coloring Books for My Kids


If you want to raise creative children, skip the coloring books

I don’t buy coloring books for my kids and never have.

I understand that you might feel like I’m attacking a sacred childhood institution but let me explain my reasoning.

Coloring inside the lines of someone else’s drawing is not art and it depresses creativity rather than encourages it.

I would much rather have my kids draw and color their own picture than use a coloring book.

I’d also rather have them play a drawing game or use a drawing prompt, as those are also creative activities.

Kids Drawing and Coloring without Coloring Books

A child who is making his or her own unique artwork will still get “coloring” practice if that’s important to you. And I assure you that they will likely start to color “inside the lines” with age and development, but there’s no need to encourage it unduly or too early.

Coloring books give kids the wrong messages ::

  • That their own drawing is not valued
  • This is what drawing looks like—perfect, adult, professional
  • Just color it in
  • Don’t think for yourself or draw for yourself
  • Color inside the lines
  • Do busywork and be quiet
  • Things look a certain way and should be depicted a certain way

If you want to raise creative kids, skip the coloring books and give them paper and crayons. Encourage them to draw for themselves.

Alternatives to Coloring Books - Story Doodles Place Mats by Taro Gomi

This post contains affiliate links. And if you want alternatives to coloring books, here are some that encourage creativity ::

Alternatives to Coloring Books for Kids

And here are some fun DIY alternatives to coloring books ::

Alternatives to Coloring Books - Playing Art Games

That said, I’m not the coloring book police.

My kids use (and enjoy) the coloring sheets that restaurants give them with their kids’ menus. (Although just as often, they’ll flip them over to the blank side and ask to play the scribble drawing game, tic-tac-toe, or do back-and-forth drawings.) And they’ve received coloring books as birthday gifts (A few pages might get colored in before the book is forgotten). I don’t make a big deal out of it.

But I also don’t buy coloring books for them. I’d rather have them draw their own art than color in someone else’s.

If your children want a simple coloring experience, how about doing a scribble drawing then coloring in the shapes? Or make color field drawings as Daphne’s been doing for months now as her storytime drawing.

Kids Art Display on Wall

How about you? Are you for or against coloring books? (And why?)

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If you want to raise creative children, skip the coloring books and give them paper and crayons. Plus lots of great alternatives to kids' coloring books.


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    May 10, 2016 at 2:11 pm

    I’m a first grade teacher. For creativity, I agree that encouraging kids to create their own art is superior. I guess I don’t see coloring pages as competing with the goal of creativity, though. Most kids love to color – there’s something calming about it. In my classroom, it’s an activity kids can choose at certain times. Many of my kids choose to color when I’m reading aloud a chapter book. It’s a mindless activity that doesn’t compete with listening, and for some kids, having something to do with their hands enhances their ability to listen.

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      May 15, 2016 at 8:35 am

      Agreed :) I love open creativity. But I color for calm. There is a place for both.

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        Zero Rei
        June 20, 2016 at 8:07 am

        Agreed, I actually still use adult colouring books myself, only a section or so when I’m stressed out, it gets rid of the stress of having to make my own ‘perfect’ lineart to colour

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          March 28, 2019 at 8:47 pm

          This is an interesting article. My kids love a blank piece of paper and freedom
          to create whatever comes to mind but we also have time for colouring pages and these serve a completely different purpose. I actually sell my own which are based around stories and nursery rhymes and we spend time colouring these in together and talking about the characters on the page. They make for a great shared activity at the end of the day or simply when we need some down time. I also find that doing this together opens up my kids to chatting about their day or any other topic they want to discuss without the usual mum interrogation anout how their day was and what they got up to. I still carry lots of blank paper and pencils with me however when we go out and about and they need to be able to entertain themselves.

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    May 10, 2016 at 2:25 pm

    Interesting blog post! We have received coloring books as gifts and I have bought coloring books for our kids when they were little but I have found that they prefer blank paper and a pencil or pen. Most coloring books in our house go unused.

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    May 10, 2016 at 3:30 pm

    I used to be firmly anti-coloring books for my children for all the reasons you mentioned. It even made me a bit twitchy when they were given coloring sheets at church or restaurants or library storytime. I never instructed or directed them, and I usually made them disappear soon after.

    Then, I don’t know, I just chilled out. We’re an art passionate family. My children’s creativity and love of art astounds and tickles me. They spend the majority of their free time engaged in creative activity.

    But I like coloring in coloring books. I find it a soothing way to turn off my brain. My 6 year old daughter asked for some mandala and zentangle coloring books of her own, and my 4 year old son soon followed suit (though his request was for Peter Rabbit and Jurassic World books). So they have some and will use them from time to time. It hasn’t appeared to stifle them. They don’t seem stressed about coloring in the lines. It turned out to really be a non-issue for our family, likely because they already had that open, creative foundation.

    Even so, good food for thought!

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    May 11, 2016 at 6:15 am

    My 10 year old has received coloring books as gifts. I used to be more against them but there does seem to be something meditative about them for her and often she adds her own drawings and imbellishments. I like the idea of offering lots of different creative outlets and allowing her to have independnce to choose, Especially at this age and try to hold some of my personal opinions for when I need them to really matter. Interesting discussion.

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    May 11, 2016 at 11:59 am

    I normally enjoy this blog, but I really don’t see the point in making a “for or against” issue out of coloring books. There is already way too much of that kind of negative energy in the parenting world.

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    May 11, 2016 at 3:34 pm

    Before I had my kid, I was completely with you. Until he was three it was all about blank work spaces and fun materials (many of which were discovered or inspired by this blog).

    Come to fid out my kid has a sensory processing disorder – the way he is wired makes it a challenge to use writinh utensils and makes it impossible to intuitively draw. At four years old can now – almost – draw a plus sign. So it turns out I am now a big fan of coloring in a book with him hand-over-hand and helping him carefully trace lines. Motor control and organization precede creativity. So it turns out coring books have its place.

    However, I look forward to the day I can hand him a blank page or prompt and witness his creativity and personality form on the page.

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    May 12, 2016 at 1:20 am

    I had coloring books as a child and loved them. I still have a big one, very simple pictures, that I would invite everyone to color in, usually with me coloring the page on the opposite side. My cousin colored several pages with me and dated them…they were when he returned home after service in Vietnam. I treasure my coloring book, hours of very happy memories. I didn’t feel that my own art had no value…I had access to blank paper as well my coloring book. I loved coloring in it and I loved making my own drawings. Now, I am designing my own coloring books and will soon publish my first one. There does not have to be a either or decision about it, in my view. :)

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    May 12, 2016 at 11:20 pm

    We have them on hand (an enormous stockpile actually), but generally my kids prefer to draw their own pictures. My 7 year old does love the activity kind of colouring books that include puzzles and mazes etc though.

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    May 13, 2016 at 8:34 am

    I just don’t see it as something that discourage creativity. It’s just something on its own. It’s just something some kids love to do. Just fill in with colours. And it’s a practice for fine motoric skills. There are a lot of crafting things that aren’t creative either. Like the ironing beads. Kids love to make the same as the example, would you say they may not? Children love it to make something with their hands. And for adults, is cross stitching something creative or is it just reproducing?
    I don’t have much coloring books. Most received and a lot of pages are ‘scribbled’ by my 2 year old youngest. And I’m quite ‘picky’ about a good coloring book. Most books are on cheap paper and I only like the books with pretty illustrations…

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    May 16, 2016 at 9:07 am

    I completely disagree with your statement that “colouring inside the lines of someone else’s drawing is not art and it depresses creativity rather than encouraging it”. What nonsense. I am the parent of three grown children who are extremely creative and artistic. They enjoyed ‘colouring’ in colouring books very much as children. I have been a preschool/edp teacher for over 30 years. I have provided colouring sheets to thousands of children who have enjoyed colouring pages and have done so very creatively. Colourings pages, when used correctly (no rules about right or wrong colours used/no admonishments about staying inside the lines/encouragement when new drawings are added etc.) simply provide a starting framework for creativity…just as knowing how to print letters and spell words provides a starting point for creative writing. How a child colours that framework…the colours, shapes, designs, addition of their own drawings and ideas provides a great forum for creativity. I could go on…but I’d rather go pull out my colouring book and get creative. :)

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      Jean Grahmn
      May 27, 2016 at 9:47 am

      I’m a mother of two very creative kids… now adults and a preschool teacher.
      You wrote the comment I was going to write.
      I bought my 28 year old actress/artist daughter the Harry Potter coloring book for Christmas and she loved it. Why does everything have to be either/or?

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    May 16, 2016 at 12:21 pm

    I was against coloring books, but then I realized that my reluctant artist enjoyed them and it was a good way for him to refine his fine motor skills that felt safe to him.

    My 5yo daughter has some of the new zen coloring books that she enjoys. She is a very emotional child and for her, they fill a need for quiet time to get centered and practice focus.

    I don’t look at the time my kids spend using these as time doing art, but they do fill different needs for them.

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    May 17, 2016 at 12:45 am

    I am not a fan of coloring books. My daughter is 20 months and so far we’ve gotten her a My First Scribble coloring book for flying. It’s more of a drawing prompt book than an traditional coloring book. I can imagine getting a few coloring books for moments when I need her to wait calmly and be occupied with something non-messy (although I like the idea of turning her own line drawings into a coloring book!)

    There are other activities that I’d put in a similar bucket — connect the dots and word searches are two off the top of my head. They are so prescribed and while they may have their place for helping to learn a specific skill, unless a child is really struggling there are richer activities available that also develop those skills while leaving room for more creativity and imagination.

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    Stacey Peters
    May 17, 2016 at 10:20 am

    I think they both have their place. I think that drawing is a great brain activity that strengthens decision making, spacial abilities, and hand-eye coordination while giving kids a chance to express themselves. Coloring can be great for calming the brain and relaxing without the stress that some people might feel about drawing. If people or kids enjoy coloring, then they should do that without guilt.

    If people want to encourage their kids to draw, I’ve come up with lots of resources that help children make individualized drawings through drawing choices. They reduce some of the stress of drawing because they give children a place to start while also encouraging them to make decisions and try out more that one way to drawing something. You can see more on my website: I hope you will consider taking a look and adding my site to your wonderful resources. Many people don’t feel confident in their own drawing abilities and don’t know where to start when encouraging their children to draw. I hope that my resources will help parents and teachers give their childrem more drawing experiences.


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    May 17, 2016 at 7:30 pm

    I agree entirely… I am not a fan of colouring for little kids, there are so many better options that don’t stifle my kid’s creativity. As my kids have gotten older they have really embraced the adult colouring craze as a way of ‘zoning out’ and relaxing, which has been so awesome for my anxious child, and I think that’s fine too.

    I think older kids use and see colouring activities in a different way than preschoolers. Just like older kids love following the pre-written steps to make a craft, whereas little kids are more about experimentation and experiencing the process so we give them open ended process art activities – I think there is a difference in the way kids use these activities according to their age and I think it’s valuable to be aware of that.

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    Ruth Elliott - HILSDON
    May 18, 2016 at 12:39 am

    THANKS for your great blog, Jean!
    I too hated coloring books as a kid. I wanted to draw my OWN lines! LOL!

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    May 18, 2016 at 10:22 pm

    I TOTALLY AGREE!!! I could have seriously written this myself! And MAN do people get ready to fight when you come out against coloring books/coloring pages, huh? I’ve dealt with this for years…way back to when I learned all you said above in my child development classes in college (got my bachelor’s in child development.) They really pushed the NO coloring books/pages in my child development classes. I listened and took it to heart and my kids have not been raised with them and are amazingly creative. Not saying you are NOT creative if you use coloring books…but I do think they are not a positive thing. But I, like you, also didn’t make a huge deal of them either, at restaurants or when received as gifts.

    It’s such a relief to read someone else with the same perspective. Thank you for writing this!!!

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    May 25, 2016 at 5:18 am

    I think every parents helps their kids for growing more and more do motivate them and try to make them more better in what they interested.

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    May 26, 2016 at 12:15 am

    I agree with you…As an art teacher, I am naturally against coloring books for small children, and I did not buy them for my girls. I have never made a big deal about it…when they have been given to us as gifts, they just don’t get used because my kids find them boring & choose to zone out when needed by doodling or drawing.

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    May 26, 2016 at 9:14 am

    Wow, you’re a little hard on something as simple as a coloring book. Good clean fun, and my kids would take their pictures and expand on them – add a ‘sunshine’, clouds, squirrels, clothes on the animals, and then at the same time
    as for their own blank paper. Everything in moderation I think. Coloring books, granted, are other people’s work. But they can inspire and spur creativity. My kids eat apples that other people grew, perhaps i should make them go out and become their own farmers? I get your point, but i hope you can see the benefits of books as well.

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    May 31, 2016 at 9:39 pm

    My full thoughts are here:

    TL;DR version: There are a lot of reasons to recommend coloring books as one option among many from which children can choose. Especially when children come with trauma histories.

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    Zero Rei
    June 20, 2016 at 8:02 am

    As a fourteen year old I was raised with the choice to use colouring books or draw myself, and did both. I also used a variety of finish the drawing books and scribble drawings, where I scribbled on the page and coloured in the spaces. Now I am hoping to go into a career in art in the future and have selected art as one of my main GCSEs, and I still use colouring books. I found as a child and still do now that drawing can be extremely stressful, especially if you just can’t get it looking how you want it to. At times like these I like to turn to colouring books, so I can focus on the colouring rather than the lineart. Lineart and colouring are two completely different things that you need to practise in equal measures to get good at drawing. Of course I down expect children to be shading and applying shadows, but whilst lineart practise is a very good skill to learn, colouring is equal importance but usually gets lost as the lineart is seen as more important. This is why colouring books can be useful; they allow you to focus completely on the colouring, with a ‘perfect’ lineart already there for you. I think that as long as you provide children with both colouring books and paper and pencils, they will choose to do a mixture of both and develop both the skills of freehand drawing and colouring in.

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    June 26, 2016 at 1:23 am

    Great article! We don’t do coloring books at home too. With my 5 year old, we use art prompts or when I’m drawing, she would also join in. I’d let her know what my theme was and she would decide whether to follow my theme or not. We usually end up with the same theme but a different interpretation of it.
    With my 3 year old, he loves cars and so I’d draw parts of it and he would try to finish up for me. but for now, he just loves cutting and so I’d give him old car magazines to cut. It’s just different age and different times that they prefer certain activities over others.

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    July 9, 2016 at 10:50 pm

    I am a big fan of your blog but this is the first time one of your posts has really disappointed me. I started drawing as soon as I could grip a crayon and never stopped. It is a habit and passion that has carried through my life. I am a creative, talented artist and I LOVED colouring books when I was a child. I loved that satisfaction of making colour choices, practicing shading and creating something that looked so complete. I learned a lot about outlines, line art and following the shape and line work of more practiced artists than I was at that age. There is so much for artists to learn from the work of other artists. Of course I always had the option to draw freely and avidly did. It’s art, it should never be either-or. Especially for self conscious children who wish to be creative but are anxious of creating their own drawings. Saying that colouring books are not art and depresses creativity is sadly narrow and pretentious for this generally encouraging blog.

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    ice lyle
    January 15, 2017 at 5:13 pm

    I find this interesting but there are some kids who need to be raised with some coloring activities in order to have some basic aspect of drawing . I use these for my kids and my friends as well.

    your method is actually recommended but i encounter some challenges with some kids while drilling them through this method but i believe that with time the always get it.

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    Honey S.
    April 17, 2017 at 9:48 pm

    I had not thought about this before. I know early on between 2 and 3 years of age, my daughter would get so upset and frustrated when she would color outside the lines. Sometimes even a tantrum would occur. She wanted me to color with her/for her. So I started coloring outside the lines to show her it was okay. Didn’t really work. After reading your article, I can now understand more of what caused her frustration. I am so glad I’ve gone more towards open art for her.

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    March 27, 2019 at 5:22 am

    I loved to color as a child and I was and i am the most creative peer. Just saying. Its a good theory but not true. Colouring cant repress creativity. It inspres.

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      March 27, 2019 at 5:24 am

      I should add that I won many 1st prizes over the years for my art.

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    Yumcha Mama
    April 8, 2019 at 8:05 pm

    Colouring in books do not stifle creativity – they are a fun-filled activity that even adults can enjoy. My very artistic mother at 79 loves the adult ones. As for young children, let’s try not to overthink things and let them be children. My husband actually makes colouring books for our toddler daughter (he’s a beautiful artist) and she watches him create the characters from books and TV come alive on paper and then enjoys filling the pages with her gorgeous array of colourful strokes. At the same time, given a blank sheet and crayons, and even her magna-doodle, she enjoys coming up with her own creative “masterpieces” just like all children do! When all is said and done, I think there are bigger issues with raising children today than worrying ourselves about the merits of colouring books. If you want creative children, get rid of the iPads, iPhones and computer screens and too much television. They are creativity’s arch nemesis – not joyful colouring books!

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    April 29, 2019 at 4:36 am

    I’ve found a great free app that lets you turn your child’s favourite picture into a colouring page (or any photo from your camera) – Colorscape app lets you either print it directly from the app or colour it in digitally within the app! We use it endlessly to turn my son’s favourite toys, or days out into free colouring pages. It’s especially helpful when going on holiday or long car journeys.

    Colorscape app: (sorry, I think it’s only for iphones or ipads at the moment).

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    May 15, 2019 at 8:14 pm

    As an elementary school art teacher, I would say that coloring books, in fact, DO offer many positives to young kids. Coloring books challenge kids to stay in the lines which takes practice. Kids (and many adults) enjoy the challenge of coloring an entire page very well and showing off the final outcome. When I was a kid, I tried hard to make my coloring pages nice enough to show off. Later on when I got more skilled at art, I started adding to the coloring book drawings, shading, etc. It’s fun.

    Neatness is certainly not THE most important thing in creating art, but being neat spills into so many other areas of a person’s life. Being neat at coloring forces kids to slow down, study a professional drawing, make choices, use their hand and arm muscles, and be precise. When a person masters those things, they will have confidence to try more advanced tasks, and they will be better prepared to persevere at long projects. Coloring requires a completely different set of skills than one uses when drawing on a blank piece of paper.

    You’re comparing apples and oranges.

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    Isla Brown
    May 30, 2019 at 4:31 am

    I completely agree with the color but I think that coloring could help many active kids that are hyper in releasing their stress and hyper issues by sitting and coloring for an hour and more.

    I did find however a reallby intersting mandalas for kids brands called Spiroraph on kidstuff

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      Jean Van't Hul
      June 2, 2019 at 4:23 am

      I totally agree, but i generally encourage kids to color their own artworks, whether abstract or realistic.

      And yes, spirographs are lots of fun!

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    Jaime Finch
    September 13, 2019 at 3:38 pm

    I meant to say: “please delete this blog post”.

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    Mrs E
    October 12, 2019 at 5:29 pm

    As a High School teacher I see what not being able to control fine motors results in. I have students who are unable to write between the lines making their work difficult to read. Math problems do not line up and letters and numbers are mixed up. Fine motor skills should be something children start working on at a very early age and coloring helps with this essential skill. Free hand drawing is creative and necessary but it does not encourage the fine motor skill to move on to writing clearly.

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    Jaime Finch
    February 26, 2020 at 11:53 am

    I’m sorry, but I believe that it’s totally okay to buy coloring books. I’m a girl with a lifelong brain injury and have fine motor issues because of it. My neurologist says I should keep coloring to strengthen my hand muscles. I’m not listening to anything this blog says about coloring books.

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    Yury Shchipakin
    June 22, 2020 at 11:07 am

    Hi Jean,
    Thank you for your interesting thoughts about coloring books and their controversial value. I personally agree with you, but also it would be great to have your opinion about “Finish the Drawings” books. They still have some components of “coloring” but they are mostly about creating your own line art and composition. I am an author of a new series of such books and you might think that I’m just promoting my stuff, but actually I just want to get some feedback from someone who is very creative. My books are more for older kids (starting age of 9 I think) or adults. Along with a “finishing the drawings” you can also personalize the whole book. I finished 3 books so far and currently I’m working on some more. Here are the links to them:

    Thank you!

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    September 8, 2020 at 11:53 pm


    There are some genuinely good points and valid reasons for not buying colouring books for your kids. However, I do believe they offer some positive points as well. I remember having them in my childhood and loved doing it, I don’t think it affected my creativity, infact it led me to be more artistic. Everyone has to start somewhere and these colouring books helped me in finding something I was passionate about.

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    November 16, 2020 at 12:05 pm

    There is nothing wrong with using a coloring book. There is nothing wrong with starting from a blank page. The only wrong option is to take one of these options away so a child never has the opportunity to explore. Enforcing a notion that art is only valid if it is done in a particular way or with a particular approach takes away the freedom a child has to find their own path to creativity so they can thrive.

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